leaving (to) myself personally, you'd like to take the time ...to find out what's going on here? To understand why? And then bring it up? . . . I know that there is something wrong with my strength. . . so I need to learn how to deal with whatever happens or just wait and hope. I remember this line from the book "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. It says: "Women who get a bad feeling about someone, don't ignore it!" I believe that women have an instinctive ability to detect danger before they even know what it is. So when I feel uneasy around someone or in a situation, I try to pay attention to my gut feeling and trust it. In the end, we all have to make our own decisions based on what feels right for us. My favorite phrase: "You are your own best friend." ...or is it? Just kidding! ...to myself personally, please? . . . and (maybe) I will try again later if not today? Or just wait until tomorrow? To take my time to think about things carefully before making any rash decisions. I have learned over the years that sometimes it's better to wait rather than act impulsively. Because once you've made a mistake, there's no going back. But also remember: life isn't always fair or logical either! Sometimes you just need to go with the flow and see where it takes you next.